Helpless !!

[Kumar8055]

My girlfriend and my friend are close friends.they both had a fight n they didn't talk with each other. And i started talking with her and became so close with her.Then one day i met her.That night she asked me to marry her.Then after a week i proposed her.Two weeks everything went smooth.She started showing more love on me and i was so happy.Now my friend started talking with my girl friend.now she stopped spending time with me. And i was not able to share this with anyone.Then three days i told my girlfriend that am feeling lonely because of this.She said that am so possessive on him(my friend).ans she said sorry for that.i said yea that's okay talk with him but spend some time with me.She said okay,but she din't.felt bad alot.Then the next day i told my friend about this.he said that he ll talk to her about this.one day fully this problem went.i dint get any solution.she said to my friend that she can't leave him and she was not able to leave me also.she suffered alot. But i was not able to see her suffering,felt bad for her.I told her i ll leave you,b happy with him.dun worry about anything and all.Then she discussed about this with her friend(another friend of her gender) she said something like don't leave your boyfriend(ME). And that night she texted me saying don't leave,be with me always,am yours and many more and she said sorry for hurting me.I said that's okay.no need to worry about this,just leave this.past is past.And she even said that she ll try to forget him(my friend) i said okay fine...then the next day we met and went to a restaurant in the evening near by. Then that night again she got confused with me and my friend.i asked her what's her problem.she said am not able to forget him like that.And the problem started again.i told am there for u always won't leave you at any cost.will be there for till the end and your mine and many more.but she said am not able to decide anything.i sent her a text "don't leave me baby" she dint reply me.am helpless...depressed,lonely,down everything.! HELP ME

[bekho]

Middle asians

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[Kumar8055]

Help me !

[Valixy]

Middle asians

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Typical ex-communist country racism? It's becoming well known that East European countries that plead for integration in a big and happy European Union are actually quite racist and intolerant.

A broken heart feels the same, you know?

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My girlfriend and my friend are close friends.they both had a fight n they didn't talk with each other. And i started talking with her and became so close with her.Then one day i met her.That night she asked me to marry her.Then after a week i proposed her.Two weeks everything went smooth.She started showing more love on me and i was so happy.Now my friend started talking with my girl friend.now she stopped spending time with me. And i was not able to share this with anyone.Then three days i told my girlfriend that am feeling lonely because of this.She said that am so possessive on him(my friend).ans she said sorry for that.i said yea that's okay talk with him but spend some time with me.She said okay,but she din't.felt bad alot.Then the next day i told my friend about this.he said that he ll talk to her about this.one day fully this problem went.i dint get any solution.she said to my friend that she can't leave him and she was not able to leave me also.she suffered alot. But i was not able to see her suffering,felt bad for her.I told her i ll leave you,b happy with him.dun worry about anything and all.Then she discussed about this with her friend(another friend of her gender) she said something like don't leave your boyfriend(ME). And that night she texted me saying don't leave,be with me always,am yours and many more and she said sorry for hurting me.I said that's okay.no need to worry about this,just leave this.past is past.And she even said that she ll try to forget him(my friend) i said okay fine...then the next day we met and went to a restaurant in the evening near by. Then that night again she got confused with me and my friend.i asked her what's her problem.she said am not able to forget him like that.And the problem started again.i told am there for u always won't leave you at any cost.will be there for till the end and your mine and many more.but she said am not able to decide anything.i sent her a text "don't leave me baby" she dint reply me.am helpless...depressed,lonely,down everything.! HELP ME

I don't think you should take seriously the marriage discussion you had with that girl. Poeople need to spend more time together and date for some time before they should consider speaking about marriage.

Besides she is in love with the other guy and can't make up her mind. This will ony get more and more complicated and you will suffer much more if you continue hoping for something with this girl. Forget about her and look for someone who is emotionally available. Good luck.

[Kumar8055]

Yeah ! but am not able to get out of it...and i still love her..she said am confused confused everytime!! she's happy whenever i meet her..shows me affection n love at that time.. this is the reason that am confused..

[Valixy]

You can't trust this girl's feelings, you can't trust her ''love'' or ''sadness''. She is immature, emotions come and go and doesn't feel enough for neither of you. If another guy showed up tomorrow and gave her attention she'd probably fall in love with him too. She likes attention and the emotional drama. Think clearly, stay out of it or you'll be even more disappointed.

Your first post is not very clear, but if she was together with your friend before you started going out with her and she asked you to propose her within weeks, you were some strange rebound for her and you should be glad for not continuing the relationship with someone whose feelings are so unstable and thinks that relationships are for playing.

[Kumar8055]

But my friend said he's not interested to get into relationship and my friend will be going abroad for studies and he said am not interested in distance relationship. last night she texted me and dint speak that..she said "am not able to sleep..feeling horrible n am not able to leave u and angry on myself for hurting u..."