Okay so i got in a relationship with an amazing beautiful girl in august last year, I worked out a lot at the time and weighed about 165lbs, (picture above.) the first few weeks everything was fine, but then she told me shed like to see me a little bigger, so i gained 5lbs, which she seemed happy with. but then little by little she started buying more and more food, and meal times got bigger and bigger, so i ask her why and she tells me she likes bigger guys, so I think okay shes a lovely girl go along with it. so after we talk she starts making me eat constantly, way too much i put on 15lbs in 3 weeks, and our sex improves, dramatically, its ten times better, she grabs my belly a lot but i dont really care. Anyway the problem is now its April iv put on so much weight, im now 209lbs and feeling pretty heavy
my hips are very very wide and flabby and my belly is double the size at least. What do i do? i enjoy sex but i dont know how much furthur she wants to go with this? i like that shes enjoying it but iv put on a lot of weight. im now obese. before i was healthy weight. i workout as much as i can but she feeds me so much it makes no difference. what should i do?