Originally Posted by
InMyOwnWorld
Ok, conflicting advice... The only issue with RainbowJohns plan is that I know that she doesn't give ANYTHING away over the internet. She's always talking about random annoying guys on twitter and facebook asking her about stuff, she says she never talks to them :/
If you even contemplated using that "plan" of rainbowjohn's then it's no wonder you're only her friend. If you like her then ask her out. If she doesn't want to go out with you then you should stop being her friend anyway because all she'll do is hold you back from finding a girl that DOES want to be your girlfriend romantically.
Stop being girls friends. Have them in your life romantically is all. Hanging with them and being their buddy mostly ends up in the predicament you now find yourself in.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion