Hi,
been dating my girl for 5-6 years now we have 3 children together
at the beginning we had sex all the time. i expected it to drop of after children
it has dropped of alot tho. she doesnt like sex anymore after children because she put some wait on.
i have tried telling her she looks beautiful
i help out with the children so she isnt to tired
i buy flowers send cute messages etc
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even buying sex toys for her
but nothing i do help.
im at the stage ive given up sick of getting rejected all the time.
i have tried talking to her about this a few times she just get angry & tells me its not me its her. she isnt happy with her weight
ive offered to help her in anyway but she got angry
it has been dropping off since our 1st child but i love her. there was one stage we didnt have sex for 6 months
while im happy with home life, im very unhappy with our sexual life & i dont feel loved, she doesnt kiss me anymore hugs are very rare
i don't want to leave the relationship we have 3 children together but i can remain unhappy much more. & i dont know how to bring this up that im feeling this may be the end of our relationship
any advice?