Am I just wasting my breath help!!!

[edwardsla]

I really need advice from a male perspective...so my ex treats me like crap he wont wanna be with me but if things get bad he comes running to me and its almost like i cant help it but im there for him im the leaning shoulder or the person thats there for him but something keeps pulling me to him when he reats me like shit im at a loss as what to do advice is appreciated)

[smackie9]

Sister seriously.....cut him off. He is no use to you. Have some self worth.

[edwardsla]

He's my first love i feel like im attatched to him somehow

[chinagirl]

We all had our first love and got over them... Follow the above advise. Ignore him when he contacts you.

[edwardsla]

thanks for the advice I just honestly wish i never met him i was so much happier before any of this happened

[chinagirl]

Break up is always difficult but you'll get over it just like everybody else. It also gets better with time.

[edwardsla]

Yeah its been about 5 months

[nico88]

I was in your exact situation with the first girl I ever loved. She dumped me but we still kept in contact (stupid move). She'd flirt with me still, send me dirty txts, pics etc. Then she'd tell me she was seeing someone. She kept me on a string for long time. Don't let the same thing happen to you. Getting over your first love is tough shit but you do get over them. It might take a few months..maybe a year but it happens.

As for the time being cut off all contact with him. Delete him from all your social networks, block his number if you have to. It may seem harsh but you need to heal and communicating with him is just gunna cause you to get confused and miss out on a lot of other opportunities with someone who actually wants to be with you by waiting around for this guy who clearly doesn't want what you want.