Okay, I don't really even know how to begin my problem. I'm with a guy right now have been for years. I do care about him & I do love him. But I also have a friend that I feel like I care about.. "crushing" maybe thats the word I'm looking for. This guy is way older & sometimes he flirts with me.. Is is that I really care? Or is it something my man ain't doing that I find in this guy?! I'm like so confused by this. I've never had this problem happen. I'm always wanting to talk to him.. But I feel no need to leave my current boyfriend?! wtf is wrong with my head?!?!