Okay ladies, i need some candid view points on this.
I asked this lady to have lunch with me, she agreed - we set a time and place.
The next morning, she texts and says she is under the weather (she cant leave the bed) and requests we reschedule. i thought nothing of it, so i went ahead and looked for something else.
We agree on another time and place (actually the next day)
The next morning, she texts again and says she is still not fully recovered from her supposed illness. That she would be fine. She apologizes acknowledging the fact that she has cancelled twice already, insists she wants to meet, and asks for another reschedule. i play it cool and (though i have red flags flying every where) advice her to get her rest. But this time, i ask her to pick a day and time that works for her.
Since then, i have received no reply.
The reason, i asked her to pick a date and time was to ascertain her sincerity to meetup. If she puts some time into picking a date and time, then i know she really wants to meet.
what do you think ladies, what could be her motives?