hi ppl. my gf holds onto a ring from her ex bf, one who has passed away. she keeps it because she doesnt know what to do with it. she says she feels its disrespectful to throw or sell it. i do thing he has relatives or siblings or mum and dad still around.
it hurts me because i feel like deep down she is still holding on, even though she says the above. its like she doesnt realise but shes holding on still. he isnt her last bf, its her bf before that. she has had it for maybe 2 or more years. he was her first, so does that make it acceptable to hold onto it?
she holds it in her purse so in reality she would have it on her all the time. and possibly think of him?
i told her what does he love? she said the beach, i said well, maybe you could go to a beach he loved and throw it in, take your time. so throwing it sounds abit ERRRR i know lol but she pretty much listened, but in the end i felt like it was going to stay in her purse forever....
im not comfortable with it. what should i do, am i overeating in thinking she should give/sell/throw?
thx
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its not an engagement ring but it is an expensive ring