Hi all....
Many thanks for taking the time to read, im really confused and need some advice i will try to keep it as simple as possible.
Ok so my ex ended our relationship nearly 2 week ago. Hes been very depressed working in an exhausting under paid job, hes been living alone for 3 months and has been worrying and stressing over his finances and lack of time being able to spend with his 3 year old son (who i love dearly).
Ok so last week he handed his notice in and started his new job yesterday.
We had a fab relationship and i we were honestly like 2 peas in a pod so cliche but the truth. The last couple of weeks we were together were almost unbearable, i could see he was ill with his depression and tried my hardest to keep his happiness and head above board but i failed miserably.
So when he ended it, He told me he couldnt commit right now, he asked for space and time to be alone to think what he wanted. The last we spoke was last friday, i crumbled and had to know how he was doing. I love him dearly and genuinely care about his health and well being, not only him but for his son too.
He told me the space alone was working and hes been making progress alone. Which hurt real bad, i kept my cool as much as possible and told him i was proud of him and wished him and his son well and that if he needed a friend im only a call away. He told me he was really thankful for my support and knows this is the best thing for us both right now.
So iv kept my distance, i didnt contact him since last Friday up until yesterday morning. I text him to wish him luck in his new job, his reply "Thank you x" I left it at that.
Then this morning i got a picture via text from him of his little son and his new teddy bear... I didnt reply i was shocked. Then he sent me the same picture via whatsapp.... I left it about an hour before i repld with this " Awww he looks happy with his new teddy... So cute" He replied " He loves it x".
Does anyone know what im supposed to do or think? Im so painfully confused right now