Should i be worried?

[ocean8]

INTRO
So here is my story. I'm in a long distance relationship. She lives in Europe and I live in the USA. We've been together for about almost a year. We visit each other back and forth several times a year. She is one of the sweetest girl i have ever met and i lover her. I also have no doubt that she loves me back the same.

She has a great group of friends in Europe that i got the chance to meet on my last trip over there. But she also has another group of girlfriends that i met that where pretty cool with me but i don't really trust (player girls, I've heard the stories she tells me about them) they are in their mid 20's and my girlfriend is in her mid 30's.

Every time my GF hangout with them i don't feel very trusting if you know what i mean.


THE STORY
So yesterday she went to play volleyball after work with the group of girlfriends i don't favor that much. She got home around midnight and called through skype with me around that time after she took a shower. She was very cheered up because she had a good time with here friends. I was really happy that she had a good time. Then she went on explaining it was fun playing volleyball, and also that they had some dinner at a restaurant that was very close to there. She also told me that there was a guy friend of her crazy GF's and she also told me that he was much much older than them (guessing mid 40's). Then she told me her friends are planning a trip to the lake that is 3 hours away and spend a whole weekend over there. After she then told me that they guy owns a boat on the lake and invited her as well to go on the trip with them. Its going to be about 4 girls and the owner and I'm positive that the owner will not be the only guy on the boat.

I know that we live far away from each other and I really like it when she socializes and have fun with all her good fiends. But i'm pretty upset about this trip.


What do you think? Any advice on what to do? Am i being unfair in getting upset?

Thank you.

[smackie9]

If you are upset about this, then you don't trust her. Don't tell me it's the guy you don't trust, it take TWO to tango. If you think she is that weak willed and can be easliy lured into hooking up with this guy then you are dating the wrong girl. She is a 30 something women, mature enough to take care of herself, and has the ability to have self control. Here's the deal, this is what you get with LDR's. You can't have an LDR if you are insecure, jealous or worry about what the other person is doing.

You have been doing this for a year, you both are at a point where one of you should be considering relocating, VERY soon, or this relatioship is doomed.

[Boisdevie]

I bet the shags the guy. After all, it's not like the OP can just pop round is it?

[smackie9]

Ya maybe she's thown in that the girls are going as decoys.