My boyfriend has a thing about masturbating, and I know you're all thinking 'and?' but when I say he has a thing for it I mean he has no shame in doing it in front of me. He's easily aroused and often seems to choose rubbing one out if I'm not in the mood or sometimes doesn't even try anything with me, just goes ahead and starts pleasuring himself. Also, it's almost a daily ritual in the morning that as soon as I'm up getting ready for work he'll start on himself and I'll walk in and he acts like nothings wrong.
The thing you need to know is, I'm fully turned on by him and we often do have sex plus I'm regularly giving him head so it's not like he's lacking in the 'I'm not getting any department'. There's times when he won't try anything on or I'll try before we go to bed and he get's aroused but tells me he really wants to watch the program he's watching and then we get to bed really late, I'm exhausted and over waiting for him to join me. He then gets annoyed that I'm upset because i wanted to do stuff but I'm now too tired and I end up being the bad guy.
Is it just me over-reacting here? Am I just being jealous that I'm not the one giving him the pleasure? I'm not stupid, everyone does this stuff, but it's usually while your partner's out of the house not while she's trying to get ready for work.
I told him it's weird and it upsets me but still it happens. He said he gets horny every morning and needs to deal with it. I've tried ignoring it and I've tried helping him while he's at it but it still feels weird. If I get aroused and give the same thing a try, he tries to help me out he always ends up having sex with me which doesn't bother me, I'd rather be with him than use my handy work plus its off putting having your other half lying there while you do your thing..
What do you guys think? I'm going insane with this! Please help