This is quite a silly post, I understand.
On Friday, I met my friends at the bar as soon as I got in my one friend told me my ex was upstairs dancing.
I should've left right then and there but I didn't I went and got a drink and drank it pretty fast and then...
I went and got another drink and about half way through it I realized I had to leave the bar because I was way too drunk and if I saw him I would fall a part.
So, I told my friend I was leaving and he said, "Don't. It's okay - you are stronger than this" and I burst into tears (god so embarrassing...) I cried for about 10 seconds - got my composure together ect.
Then, my ex boyfriends brother's girlfriend saw me and she runs up to me and hugs me for like 5 minutes, telling me I'm beautiful and the nicest person she ever met and told me not to cry ect.ect. She's like "I know why you are crying and it's okay, it's going to be okay" After that conversation, I just left and cried and have been feeling like a pile of shit since Friday night.
I'm extremely mad at myself for crying and not leaving the bar. I wanted to see him but I also knew I couldn't see him because why would he be at the bar if it was not to meet chicks? ect.
I DON'T WANT TO HAVE FEELINGS ANYMORE. I am so hardened and cold by this break-up. I feel I will never be able to love someone again. I just feel broken and I want to be alone. I can't even love a puppy...
I think I have accepted why we both had to break up but I am finding it really hard to not love him anymore because I can't figure out a reason why I shouldn't love him. i have logical answers that lead to superficial qualities I don't like but it doesn't give me enough justification to not be in love with him anymore.
I feel pathetic.