Hey all!!
I need some advice on my current situation.
I met a guy at work a few months ago. We started chatting and went on a few dates.
From then on in we speak over the phone everyday, meet each other a few times a week and everything was great. We tell each other lots of different things of our life's to each other ect.
Here's the thing,
(His ex girlfriend passed away about a year ago and iv not long came out a bad relationship.)
We sort of turned our relationship into a casual sex thing but iv developed feelings for him and I thought he did too but now I just don't know what's going on.
He always compliments me, takes me out and always stares in my eyes ect. He even as much as got annoyed at my ex for being abusive towards me. When we are together we act like boyfriend/girlfriend.
The other night he said "he thinks about me all the time. Like where I am and what I'm doing".
I didn't really reply to this at this point.
I was contemplating my life today and I realised that I'm starting to develop feelings for him. I told him that "I'm stuck in a situation that I find myself thinking about him all the time, I tried not to get close to him but I can't help it and I didn't know what to do"
He replied: "I'm nothing special, you can do so much better than me"
I said: "yeah you are special; to me you are and maybe I didn't want to do better than him and why did he say I can do better or was that his way of saying to me to leave him alone?"
He said: "no I don't want you to leave me alone.. I don't do relationships right now and I don't want anyone to get hurt."
I said "I wasn't asking him for a relationship but letting him know my feelings to see what his where, so that I could fix my situation"
Then I called him but he had just picked up his son so couldn't really talk.
I was wondering if they could give me their opinions and views to what they think? My head doesn't know what to do. To pursue to meet him or leave him alone?
Thanks 😊