Hi,
I'm a male with 39 and she is 26 - I'm very interested in her. We had 3 nice dates.
Since first dating she demonstrated that she was interested in me - but I'm confused with her contradictory behavior:
The problem is that after the first dating it was very difficult to have each of the other 2 met with her.. every time we schedule a dating for the next day and on the meeting day she send me a message that is not possible to met, because she is very tired, or some excuses that I don't know if it is true.
We tried about 6 times to have only 2 meetings after first date.
I believed that she was not interested enough and so I decided last week to sent a polite message to her telling that I gave up and we will not met again - she replied telling that she became very sad with my message and she asked apologies - she told me that she would try to improve and that she is still interested in me. She told me that if she became not interested she will tell me that and not give excuses.
But we had a meeting scheduled for yesterday and on last minute she told that it would not be possible to met again... and that she would contact me when she arrive at home at night - what never happened.. I became very disappointed.
Today she sent me a message ignoring what happened yesterday talking about other things.
I'm very anxious and sad with this situation.
What I do? give up? try to be more patient and continue the game? Or talk a second time with her that I'm disappointed... I'm afraid to talk a second time and demonstrate that I'm disappointed and with this be very demanding to her too early (we met only 3 times).