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    She dumped me and I don't know what happened?

    I'm a 19 year old guy, and she is an 18 year old girl.

    > Started talking to her again a year later, we hit it off.
    > She was my first kiss, and accepted my request for her to be my girlfriend a few weeks in.
    > Agreed to go to prom w/ her, rented a tux and ordered a corsage.
    > She would call me her BF in text but never in person.
    > I did come on strong with feelings, but it wasn't one sided, she said she was falling for me, that I was the best guy she met, was lucky, etc.
    > One day I asked if I was her BF, she said no, that we were exclusive but refused to use labels. Said she cared for me deeply, never second guessed it, and eventually I relented to wait it out. We were still fairly new (~6 weeks).
    > Dumps me 2 days later, citing "drama", lack of feelings for me now and wasn't ready.
    > Shes now dating the foreign exchange student and is going to prom with him now. Started seeing him only A COUPLE DAYS later.

    What the hell happened?

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    Its your nationality most likely O.o

    Forget her and hire an escort that looks 18 to go to the prom with you. Give fluffy the finger as you dance by her.
    “The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion

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    What happened?? she jumped ship when she saw something better. It's obvious she was cookin up something with this guy and when he asked her out it was bub bye to you. She's a c%$t

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    this happens all the time OP. the first month or two you are just getting to know each other. It doesnt start to get serious until after that
    "Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".

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    You are both very young and one cannot expect to find the perfect "one" immediately. That is WHY you date, to try and find the right one. It really is a LOT better to find out in the beginning that it doesn't work that years down the line when you have invested lots of emotional time and effort. I know its confusing, but there really are may fish in the sea!

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    I wouldn't worry about what happened..shes honestly not worth it.

    You're young and there are plenty of other girls out there for you to date so stop worrying about this chick and go find yourself someone else who is worth your time.

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