Originally Posted by
Confused1234500
He didn't seem 24 in his ways, more mature than some people my age altho it appears I got that wrong. I suppose when u want to believe something so badly it's hard not to sometimes
You are so low in self worth that you really do need to stop dating for the time being and work on yourself with either the help of a life coach or with yourself by doing things that boost your self-esteem.
You beg for the attention of men who take you for granted because they know no matter how indifferent they treat you, you're going to be all over them like white on rice and you're doing this "all over" way toooooo early, well before it's clear in his actions that he has emotionally bonded to you.
Change your dating strategy or else this is going to continue to keep happening to you. You give a guy zero challenge and so he gives you back zero concern whether you stay with him or you leave him.
Look to men more closer to your own age and station in life. A 24 year old male? Chances are he's just in it to brag about banging an older woman. Stop being "Siffler's Mom" from the movie American Pie. You want more then being a sex partner so stop just being a sex partner.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion