I posted about this situation earlier but would love men's perspectives. Dating a guy 6 weeks, I'm 37 he's 24. Saw him only 4 nights due to his commitments (in a bike club and has to be there a lot).
So sweet when with me and few days ago text loves me. When together was perfect.
I said didn't just want a sex buddy and he said he doesn't but sex helps him get close, wanting pics etc. made a date for mon and I asked to let me know if coming or not and didn't reply. Got ready incase and no show. Text to say didn't understand why couldn't let me know and nothing so later said can't do this and he just messaged 'ok'. Ended up saying why I felt so bad, waited to know, got ready etc and no show and still didn't answer when I messaged. He replied he didn't have time to read my 'essay'. Later messaged saying he didn't have his phone on him but I had seen he had been on numerous times (whatsapp). Is this normal for men?