Should I contact him?

[begreat]

Over the last couple of weeks i've wanted my ex to contact me,seeing as im too stubborn to contact him.We broke up about 8 months ago over a stupid little thing.He sent me messages before and I answered them,and I decided that it would be best to just break contact,so even though I would see him I wouldnt speak to him for months up until a few weeks ago we started talking again and it sorta made me realise how much I miss him.We havent sent messages or anything to one another for two weeks now.I think that he's doing it out of respect for me because he thinks that I maybe dont want to talk to him anymore again,he's already told me how he feels about me and has said that if I didnt want to talk to him then it would be hard for him but he would respect my decision.I still want to contact him but I dont want to be the one that has to do it as stupid as that sounds.

[anya_may21]

The longer you wait the harder it will be to reach out, so if you want to reach out do it now, or not at all. A lot can happen on his end in two weeks.

He might think you are upset and is why you won't talk or that you are very busy so he is giving you space you want.

Do you want him back and not to be an ex?

[begreat]

I know but I just want him to be the one to message so that he's not replying just because he feels he has to.

I dont know if I want him back or not :/ Its really annoying because I think of him alot even when we werent speaking.I feel like we have a connection but sometimes when we are around one another I kind of feel a bit awkward and dont know what to say to him.

[milk&honey]

If you really still have feelings for him then there's no harm in swallowing your pride for a little while and contacting him.