Gentlemen o love forum, I need your perspective...
Here's a quick background of the situation:
- Dating this guy for two months
- No sex yet, everything is G-rated thus far (kissing, cuddling, that cute stuff)
- I've met his parents (he lives with them while in grad school)
- I've met his friends
- We're starting to get comfortable with each other
- For the most part, we make each other feel GOOD
Sounds perfect, right? No. He is kind of flakey and it drives me crazy. He makes a lot of 'unofficial' plans. For example, yesterday we hung out and when he drove me home, he said something along the lines of What are you doing tomorrow" "Blah blah I'll be home at night" "Okay, well we should watch a movie or something" Anyways, I texted him today and said I was coming home and he said to hang out tomorrow.
LONG. STORY. SHORT. He does this a lot. It makes me feel like he doesn't respect my time or has found something better to do. His personality is laid back and maybe a little forgetful, so I get that. But I still feel like shit when it happens. So that's that.
Am I being pathetic? Am I being uptight? Does he really not care? Do I deserve better?
Any tips for dealing with this?
HELP.