Just looking for the male perspective on men standing up for their women.
Mine has only stood up for me 3x in 14years. I just feel he should defend me more. Jump in there...help me out...stand up for me. But he doesn't. And I'm getting mixed opinions from my female friends and am looking for an impartial 3rd party male point of view.
And by stand up for me...I don't mean start a fight or knock someone out...just say "hey...you don't need to talk to her like that" or something. Its everything from his family (I know...touchy subject...but when they scream at me and tell me to get the **** out of their way...yeah..a lil back up would be nice), to his friends (one friend felt up my breasts, grabbed my ass..in front of my guy...and then tried to kiss me...my guy never defended me and I lost quite a few friends because they thought it was my fault and he never stood up for me so they probably assumed I was the one in the wrong) and even my friends (my friend was saying all sorts of rude and horrible things to me ...I think she might have some mental problems that need addressing...and lying about me and it just would have been nice when he saw her to say hey...you need to treat her better). I didn't used to stand up to his family, but now I do. And I did stand up for myself against his friend's wife who accused me of doing these things...yeah...he was married. Jerk. And I did stand up to my friend. So I'm willing to go to bat for myself but I'm not a bitch. I just feel if he is going to be my partner...my other half...he should be right there defending me. If I screw up..ok...not so much...but when I'm innocent and he can see how it kills me...I dunno. Sorry to ramble. LMK what you think please. Thanks guys!