he started flirting with me and I thought he was not the one night stand kind of guy (I have known him for years, not of my best friends though, but I have had conversations with him here and there), but then after a night when we kissed for the first time and I didnt want to go to his house (I was kinda scared, seemed fast for me) and he didn't establish any contact with me anymore, so I understood that he liked me in a friendly sexy way, defnively not for a relationship, being that I rather saw him that way.
Now the thing is, I realized he doesn't want me for a relationship, so I feel like I rather started thinking the same about him as a good hook up night, and I want to get into his sheets (if you know what I mean), but he rather ignores me, I mean, he answers my messages, but not in a flirty way anymore.
So, what can I do to get him?
And I don't want you to tel me not to chase him, I am decided, no mather how sick it sounds.