Hi guys.

Here's the deal. Basically I've been dating this awesome guy for a few weeks. We really like each other and things have been going really well.

For a long time I had been planning to go to another city to visit my best guy friend before he leaves for America next month, so this weekend I went up to see him. For the first few nights I had a hotel, but then on the last day I lost my bank card and had no money on me, so I had to stay at my friend's place. He has a very small room with only a bed and bathroom.

I kept all of my clothes on and lay on the edge of the bed. I hug my guy friends a lot but I was thinking of the new guy I'm dating and how I wouldn't feel comfortable hugging another guy in bed, even If it is my best friend. He talked about how he was sad that he was leaving and kept putting his arms round me and leaning against me. Nothing sexual. Just trying to hug me a lot. I didn't want to push him away so I kind of awkwardly gave him a hug back a few times and then kept my hands to myself. He kind of snuggled against me for most of the night.

If I had hugged him back properly it would have been purely out of friendship, but I didn't get too close and cuddly because I was thinking of the guy I'm dating. Still I feel bad about this and wonder if I should tell him. There really was nothing sexual about it and this guy is a really good friend of mine and did not take liberties with me or try to force anything on me. He just wanted to hug me a lot and I think he just wanted someone to cuddle as he's a bit lonely, which I understand. But I have a really guilty conscience about a lot of things and have been wondering if I should bring this up to the guy I'm dating. I told him On the phone I would be staying at my friends place because of my situation and that nothing would happen, which it didn't.

But I wonder. Should I tell him or just leave it alone?

Thank you for any advice.