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Thread: To kiss or not kiss on first date?

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    To kiss or not kiss on first date?

    Pretty simple question, should you kiss or not kiss on a first date?

    In this situation I have been talking with the girl for a while and really hitting it off and have lots in common.

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    Must kiss in your first date. Its increase your love.

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    difficult thing is do you wait to get some encouragement from her?i normaly find when i get close to a woman if she looks at my lips yep go for it,if you dont feel inclined to do so anyway then there is a barrier there ugh! dont go there.

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    Well if girl is communicable and you have connected with her well in social level then yeah take it to the next level. Probably you will wind that shes absolutely okay with you getting close to her lips and only one who make a big deal out of it is you. Basically whenever you feel cool with it do it. Sometimes you just feel the right moment.
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    If I already know them and there is already a connection, I'd kiss goodnight, if a blind date I wouldn't kiss on the lips, just hug, maybe next date if I felt a better connection I'd kiss.
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    Pretty simple answer.. Read the signals. Before initiating any kind of move, look for body language clues such as prolonged eye contact to help you work out whether you'll get a positive response. Conversation If they find someone attractive, men and women won't necessarily say what they're really thinking. If the woman is making the first move Approach with free abandon and curious hands. Be a predator. The kiss. If they haven't rejected your advances so far, then you can start to feel more confident about stealing a kiss.

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    If you can tell, that the girl finds you attractive there are some signs that indicate that, but I won't tell you what they are exactly, then go right ahead. You can read on the internetz what those signs could be, or you can try figuring them out on your own.

    I regret very very much that I didn't kiss my girlfriend on the first date, it was an awkward goodbye to be honest, but we're unique like that

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    hmm.... not kiss on first date

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    Well, you know her and yu know there is something interesting there, then go kiss her now
    kiss kiss kiss

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    Well the first date went well and I only kissed her on the cheek at the end. We had an amazing time but sitting waiting for a train for me to travel back home didn't feel like the right time. We have a 2nd date soon so I will see if there's a better opportunity then thanks for all the advice so far guys and gals

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    Kissing on any date happens when both parties initiate it together.

    Kissing is something that is great when it happens spontaneously- not planned.

    If the moment is right it will just happen. Dont over think it. Just have fun on your date.

    There is no time certain time frame for a kiss to happen during a relationship. Its up to you and your date. The more spontaneous and romantic the more memorable.

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    I usually won't on the first date.

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    I feel it depends on the situation. I've kissed a guy on the first date before and others I haven't. I think it's better to just go with the flow of things. If you're feeling each other and the moment is there, why waste it?

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    I don't kiss on the first date and in fact will delay physical contact as long as I can so I can maintain my emotional independence as much as possible. It drives men crazy.

    On the other hand, if all I want is sex from him, I will initiate physical contact.
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    It does depend on the situation, easy scenario. When you hug her be aware of the way she hugs, if she hugs you under your arms and looks up towards you while she rests in your arms then just give her the kiss. She's asking for it
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