can someone help me? what can i do or say? my bf started to work at different bars in a very touristic beach city. i already met him there...(i live in another city).. i just feel that he is disconnecting from me...it makes me feel a bit heartbroken. when i recently complained, he said how busy he is and that i have no idea the kind of hard job it is, cause he has to be standing up for long hours, and works day and night, depending on his bosses wills. i know he's been facing also some physical health problems, and having to look for his own place to stay there... but still he should have at least some minutes to send a quick comforting sms, and he lacks doing it...mostly i feel it's me contacting first, ..2 nights before i liked his attitude: he send me a goodnight kiss via sms. but yesterday i called him in the afternoon, he don't pick the phone, and answered he was sleeping. i try to understand he works till late at night...but i feel neglected. i'm not the clingy type. in fact i've never been. he's younger than me.. i just don't want to break up...how can i express my problems to him? should i just relax? do u think it's bad if i would spend a whole day and night without contacting him? does communication is that important every single day or sometimes to relax a bit? ... please i want some good advise. not to hear the usual, he must be cheating on u.