Hello guys !
I hope that someone can help me out. I'm in this tricky situation which I can't seem to find the right solution. The whole story, will try to make it as short as possible.
I've been together with my girlfriend for one and a half year (been living together for one year). She recently started working 5-6 times a weak which leaves me a lot home alone. At those lonely times I got bored and started using the app "Tinder" to see if any girls found me attractive (I didn't believe any other girls would). This is where i found and started chatting with this sweet girl. We been chatting a lot for about a week now and she doesn't know that I have a girlfriend at the moment (I was afraid to tell her, as I didn't want to scare her away). I'm totally divided into two pieces as I still love my girlfriend, but can't see a real future with her. And at the same time I always think about this girl from Tinder, I also believe she wants to meet me soon. How do I handle this? In the end I don't want to be with my girlfriend, but it's also hard for me to tell her how I feel. Whats the best solution to get out of the relationship without "smashing" her feelings, as I know she really loves me and wants to live with me for the rest of her life?