Hello,
I am a 27 year old male. My partner and I have been together for 5 years, in January we had a baby girl. She also has a 6 year old boy who I treat like my own.
We have had our ups and downs as any or most couples would say. Lately my significant other has complained she does not feel loved by me, and that she doesn't think we are going to last much longer. We are currently on vacation and all my family here is treating her like family yet she finds things to not like about them. She expresses anger about how she is unhappy and how here life revolves around me. I am a business man with several businesses but I only work a few hours each weej the rest of my time is dedicated to her and our child. I always encourage her to do whatever will make her happy, go back to school, travel etc. But claims I am controlling and keep her from being happy. She also has a problem with drinking, after a couple beers she does not know how to stop and becomes a different person. Sometimes evil. On the plane ride she got furious that I would even take her traveling and complained that she cannot take care of the baby on the plane. She often stresses over the baby and I gladly take over. I do most of the work for our girl (she does not get up at night).
I can't talk to her about anything because if I express my feelings she blows up and becomes hysterical. She is incredibly high maintenance. I don't know what to do.
I want to make a point and say she never was like this, she used to be sweet and liked by everyone. Loudest laugh in the room kind of girl. She wasn't so uptight and downright angry. And for a few hours each day and sometimes entire days she is that way but just like a flip if a switch she changes and finds something to create misery over.
I do everything for her, literally everything I can to make her happy.
I've tried to be more of an asshole thinking maybe she has taken advantage of me but she goes nuclear.
The thought of separation is very sad because of our new born and frankly because i still love her deeply. Should I prepare myself for this? Does anyone have any suggestions? Past experience?