Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 9 months now and we were each other's first everything.
He's a great guy and has almost all the qualities I want in a man but one thing that frustrates me so much is our sex life.
My sex drive is so much higher than his and I wish we could have sex all the time.
He always tells me how attracted he is to me and how horny I make him but when we're both in bed he almost never initiates anything.
and when we finally have sex, it literally lasts about 2 minutes and then he gets soft (and can't get hard again)
It's so frustrating to me and always hurts my feelings because I feel like it's my fault that he can't stay hard.
After he gets soft he always just stares at my body and jerks off while I lay there unsatisfied.
I'm starting to think that he has erectile dysfunction (we're both 25 yrs old)
He would get hard when I give him head but when he's ready to put on condoms, that thing just shrinks all the way back...
and then it takes another 5-10 mins to make him hard again but then after 1-2 mins of intercourse it just goes back to being soft.....
Does he have erectile dysfunction?
He also tells me he doesn't stay hard because he barely feels anything when we have sex. (I don't sleep around, he's the only guy I've been with). he would much rather blow jobs or heads because he feels more that way. (this is what confuses/concerns me most.....)
I don't know how long I can stand this....I know sex isn't everything to a relationship but I just don't know how to deal with this.