in love and sad

[john.gilbr]

There was a girl. We bacame best friends. after 6-7 months we started having fun. But it only took for a week. She went on a 2 month holyday. We texted and alot and she would call me every night. For a month everything was ok i fell in love. but then...
day 1: we did text but she didnt call
day 2 : no text , no call
day 3: she called and said some of her friens arrived and they started going out every night, also she spent her internet data and she cant text. We talked and I was rude, an asshole. she got mad and hung up.
I apologized, she said she overreacted (she didnt) and also apologized
day 4 nothing
day 5 i wrote that I want to hold her in my arms, kiss her etc
day 6 saturday she saw it at 6 am, no relpy for 10 days
I couldnt take it anymore
me: you dont have to answer, i am still going to kiss you first time i see you
her: you know thats not gonna happen (because our relation is secret i thought)
me: I know, but I enjoy imagining it. she left "seen"
me: just say **** off
her: why ?
me: we stoped talking and it is better than "seen"
her: I am not going to write that
me: you are annoying goodbye
few days later
me: i am not gonna let you go. what is the problem
her: you are rude ( about my humour). we are always gonna be friends
me: i dont wanna be your friend
her:you are gonna have to
me: you found someone?
her:we dont have a future. you are just playing with me
me: you didnt answer
her; it is not your thing
me: so you have
her: even if i have, it is not your thing
me: who is it?
her : i havent been with anyone
then we continued to fight...then i wrote a bible about how much i love her and all the things she told me.
I ended with I know you love me. you shouldnt give up on people you love.
her: I love you, there is no doubt in that. But I moved on. You are still my best friend.

I started crying. When she comes back I am gonna see her everyday for the next I dont know how much.
I am in love. pls help I want her back

[lovebroken]

First you even said you were " rude and asshole" so don't be that to her anymore, she didn't like it and pushed her back from you with how you treated her, that is your own fault, not hers.
Second, you are coming on too strong and possessive that could scare her.
Third, not a good sign when someone tells you your relationship has to be secret.

Try to relax, and not push, because you will only push her away. How old are you both, very young?

[john.gilbr]

We are part of the same clique and we both wanted it to be a secret.
I know I was possessive, it is because I really miss her. We are 19 and 18.

You think there is still a chance?

[dontaskme]

No chance. She had moved on. Accept it.

[adityasingh]

Forget everything and don't be sad and enjoy your life.