Hello everyone,
about 2 months ago I met a guy who I then started seeing for about 4 weeks. During that time I was introduced to his troubled younger brother, who I got on with right away (I'm 29, he's 22).
When I stopped seeing the guy I met first (we stopped talking), the brother and I started seeing each other, so far 4 times, once he stayed at my place for 3 days.
Now I havent seen him in a week. He rarely answers my calls, seems to go offline when I say something to him on a social networking site and I'm actually scared to call now. He has a lot going on, but so do I.
He said to me once, we could never be together because of the way we met and he's hoping not to fall in love with me. I actually got a huge crush on him already and feel heart-broken, because I miss him.
Also, he talks about his ex-girlfriend a lot, who left him 1 1/2 years ago, so that's not a good sign.
What I don't understand is, he does show affection... Sometimes he kisses me out of the blue or we just look into each others eyes for minutes. He wanted me to sleep in his arms every night. He kept me up all night to talk to me on the phone last week and ended up coming to my place in the morning.
Most of the time we just talk about anything and everything or lie on the bed. We did go further than that twice (sex). Unfortunately during every visit there was some alcohol involved.
I've been battling depression for 18 years now and at the moment am having a very bad phase again, my whole life is somewhat falling apart job/apartment/friends-wise, so this matter is not really helping the situation.
Should I forget about him or call him again? I'd appreciate some male input.
P.S. His brother doesn't know any of this.