Hi. I need help. I am married with four beautiful children. Been with him for 8 years but it has not been the best. He has gotten abusive. I have tried to leave but scared of other reasons of possible threats. And my children. He's good to my children but not me. So I found comfort of talking to people online on a messenger app. And I fell in love with this person. He's younger than me but he's been the most wonderful person. We have talked on the phone and have started plans together I haven't told him I was currently still married. But I am looking to end my marriage to be with him. I just don't know how. Any advice?