I've been seeing this guy for over five years. He's 47. He runs hot and cold with me and always has. Recently he's been pulling away a bit. I've been asking him to see me for a week now and he keeps saying maybe. He asked to see me last nite at the last minute and I didn't have a sitter for my kids so I couldn't. I spoke to him this morning and asked to see him tonite. He said possibly and I haven't heard from him since. Do I contact him again since its been nine hours since our conversation this morning, to see if he still wants to see me tonight? Or is that me being needy and pushy? Should I wait and see if I hear from him instead ? I don't know what to do anymore, I feel like he's playing games with me.