Where is your mother? Can she not help you if you've already had the baby?
If you're so afraid of him having it when he's planned to have it then tell him that you would appreciate this happening well after you've had the baby and have established some sort of schedule with feeding the baby and are more confident being alone with the wee one.
Why is he organizing his own stag? That isn't what he should be doing. As protocol goes, it's the best man that arranges the stag... which usually takes place a month or so before the wedding.
Last edited by Wakeup; 15-09-14 at 09:43 AM.
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