i recently ended a relationship i had been in for a while and a good friend of mine and i started hooking me up he calls me pet names and refers to me as his girl at times but we have yet to define whats going on i thought it was just friends having casual sex but we've established we both have feelings for each other... he ask to see me everyday we laugh and have a great time being around each other but id like to know what exactly we are because he says we're not dating but he also says we aren't just friends with benefits thoughts on how to figure this out??