Hey Folks,
I posted a thread some time ago regarding my sweetheart and I. Allot of you had some very thoughtful words and appreciated advice. I'd like to offer an update because much has happened, and much happened due in part to you fine folks.
Therapy. Started it. ( suggested by some of you) you know who you are.
Sweetheart and I have both been seeing a therapist of sorts regarding stuff from both of our pasts. He'll be going for some solo sessions this week as well, my turn next time. (we be broke but it's worth it)
The consumption issue is doing what it will. Up, then down. Roller coaster ride but it is my hope that with some time, he'll get through this.. Hey, I'm not perfect myself.
I am hoping sweetheart will feel cozy enough to share with this person what he will not share with me. Childhood. I think he had a rough one at times.
I swear, he is the best person I have ever met; it pains me to sense he had it rough way back then. I know it is a reason why he drinks as he does.
We addressed the weird phenomena that happens when we are around other people and apparently, we need to get out more and socialize and not be so uber protective over one another because hey, after all, it's normal and natural to be around other people now and then.
We know we are different.
Anyway, appreciate all the help from my omnipresent anonymous cosmic angels; even the odd lil devil.
thank you.
Hope your all well