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    Is nearly 4 weeks of getting to know her, too early to tell her that...

    I think I like her/am interested in her (as in a possible love relationship)?

    There's this girl who I just recently met in a college course and have been talking to her for 4 weeks and we've hung out after class most of the times at the cafeteria or library. She was originally from Vietnam but moved here in the US when she was 7 years old. I think I'm already starting to fall in love with her. She's already given me her cell phone number and we have texted a couple of times already for school projects and to say hi. She's a sweetheart who's very accepting and understanding of me but at the same time, I feel like I don't want to bother her and come off as a creeper or a stalker by texting her a lot, hence why I've only texted her a couple of times.

    I really feel like telling her how I feel but the problem is, she's always very busy outside of college with looking for another part-time job, doing things for her family and doing her class assignments so I hardly ever had the chance to have a strictly alone time between me and her, like a date. Heck, not even a simple hang out. I don't know if she has a feeling for me and probably will only want to see me as a friend.

    I'm reluctant to tell her after my class some day because I have the feeling that I might stress her out more with telling her about my feelings toward her since she's a very busy person, despite that I've never seen her ever angry, irritated or in any intolerant/negative sort of mood. Despite that I have her in my class and have her number, she's still very busy to spend time with me either way if I try asking her both after class and through text message at home so I don't want to bother her.

    Idk. Should I just be straight forward and honest with her about my feelings after class following this week or wait a little more patiently? A couple of guys tell me to never hold a woman up about my true feelings because she'll eventually "friendzone" me and another guy will take her while one female friend told me to be patient and never rush a relationship. She's(the Vietnamese college classmate) single BTW.
    Last edited by Aztecwarrior480; 05-10-14 at 04:55 PM.

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    I think you should tell her how you feel but be subtle about it. The worst thing you can do is rush head into an "I think I'm falling in love with you" type statement. That would probably send her running in the opposite direction. Try "I really like you and would you like to go out with me sometime". She sounds like the type of girl who will be honest with you, and will probably find out pretty quickly if she likes you as well. As for her being very busy, if she likes you, she will make time.

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