What is going on?

[lightattheend]

If hes like me...
Hes confused, in love with you but realises that he doesnt get what he wants from you in terms of feeling like you love him in the same way.
Breaking up was an attempt to make himself feel better/make you jealous. A desperate attmpt to make you love him like he loves you, or mkae himself forget about you...... It hasnt worked. You have got over him and he hasnt got over you which means his plan has backfired, which means hes gonna be hurting and will want you back now more than ever. But this was always gonna be the case if he loves you more than him.

If you love him and are prepared to give more in the relationship then get back with him.
If not, then dont because you will only end up ending it with him which will hurt him badly.

Maybe he ended it because he was scared you were going to. I was in a relationship where i loved someone and she didnt love me at all really, i spent the whole time thinkin im gonna end it because i got nothing from her...but i never had the guts to be without her, id just hope that soon shed start to love me back. She never did, then dumped me for someone else.
That has taken a lot of gettin over.

Thank you for that advice...it was very helpfull!
He actualy is saying now that he's still madly in love with me and that the girl he was exclusive with was only a friend. That there was never anything there b/c I had his heart. Though I'm not sure if i trust him now...he still considers that women a good friend and had done the whole family thing with her during his little "vacation". Meaning he met the family and they loved him, she met his fam and they loved her bla bla. I mean I love him still but he doesnt understand why I wouldnt trust him...duh! Am I wrong for being careful??

[jay12]

Glad what i said made sense...

If im right about him doing this because he loves you, and because it hurt him that maybe you didnt love him like he loved you. Then get back with him. He cant understand why you might not trust him cos hes never considered himself to be the one that would cheat, maybe hes alwasy been weary that you would.

Make him realise that he has hurt you and you do love him, and give it another chance if you want to. This guy really sounds like me....so maybe im biased.
But if you love him try again.