So I've been seeing this girl for a couple weeks now. We started talking online and then met up shortly after. It was exciting at first. I haven't done a whole lot of dating so I was really excited to meet someone who was really into me. Things turned sexual pretty quickly and we've hooked up four times now.
The problem is that after the last couple of times we were together I found that initial excitement wasn't there for me any more. On the other hand she is super into me. She also hasn't done a whole lot of dating either so I think this is a pretty big deal for her. I made it clear to her in the beginning that things should just stay casual for now until we get to know each other better. She agreed, but I can tell she's looking for things to get more serious. She's always telling me how amazing I am, how I'm the best guy she's ever been with and how happy I make her. She's already calling me pet names (babe, sweetie) and referring to me as "her man." She's also constantly texting me every day.
I just don't find myself all that attracted to her any more. We were having sex this morning and I just wasn't feeling anything. I ended up losing my erection and couldn't finish. I know this sounds horrible, but I think initially I was more attracted to the fact that I had a chance to get with her than I was actually attracted to her. I don't have a lot of experience with girls so it was exciting initially when I met someone who was really into me. But now that I've been with her a few times those feelings just aren't there anymore.
Anyways, I know I need to end this soon before things get too serious but I've never had to break up with anyone before. I'm just worried because she seems to have some self confidence issues. She's always saying how good it makes her feel knowing that I'm attracted to her, so I'm worried that when I break up with her it's going to absolutely crush her.
I'm not going to see her again until Monday. I have to leave town for work tomorrow and then will be staying with my parents over the weekend for Thanksgiving (I'm Canadian). She's also leaving town to visit her parents for the weekend. I'm driving back home on Monday and supposed to pick her up on my way. I offered to do so so she wouldn't have to take the bus (It would be a really long bus ride and it's not too far out of my way). We're supposed to hang out Monday night when we get back but maybe I should just end it when I drop her off at home. I'm also wondering if I should do it over the weekend, but then I'd have to do it via text or over the phone which doesn't seem right.
Any suggestions? I feel really bad because I know she's going to be really hurt, but I just can't let this continue.