Hello everyone,
I've been with my boyfriend for a little over a year. We are both in our 20's. Things have been up and down, but one of the biggest "downs" is our sex life. For one, I am a virgin (vaginal intercourse only). I am more than eager to lose my virginity at this point though. My boyfriend (not a virgin) wants us both to be ready before we have sex. Therefore, the only thing that works for him besides actual sex is blow jobs. I pretty much hate giving them, but I do it sometimes because it's all he wants. I tried it with a condom but he didn't like how it felt. Anyway, he gets angry with me because I don't bring up being sexual more than once a week or so, but why would I if my only option is to put his cock in my mouth? He says every other girl he's dated had no problem giving oral. I've told him that I just want to have regular sex sometimes to switch things up and to be able to do something more intimate, but he doesn't want to take my virginity just because I hate blow jobs and until things overall are better between us. We tend to argue a lot, but we both care for each other a lot. I think it's commendable that he cares about my virginity, but at the same time I just want to have sex! Haha. Am I being selfish? Should I just give him oral more often even though I hate it? Or should he be more understanding?