Girlfriend of 2 years slowly pushing me away and ignoring me.

[mime26]

Hey guys/, my girlfriend of 2 years has recently been ignoring me. The usual number of messages and calls slowly decreased a few weeks ago, and last night, she completely stopped contacting me.

We've both been pretty busy nowadays, but I'm sure that if you really love someone, there's always a way to communicate with each other. I'm not feeling that from her. I try to call her after school to check up on her, but she usually doesn't answer anymore. When I don't message her all day, she messages me late at night and we only exchange a few messages before we sleep. I feel like she's trying to slowly cut me off from her life.

I messaged her on Facebook last night asking her if she's okay but still no response. So I tell her if she wants me to stop worrying about her, I'm willing to I'll leave her alone forever. I woke up this morning to see that she did in fact see the messages, but she still didn't respond. And that hurts.

I'm the type of guy who doesn't want to play any manipulative mind games, but I don't want to be too straightforward to not challenge her as well. Should I visit her after school and confront her about it? Should I give her a taste of her own medicine by ignoring her even more? Should I let her drift away? How do I be 100% sure that she wants to end the relationship?

My heart is hurting right now. What should I do, guys?

[purple_roses]

This is your girlfriend of TWO YEARS.. If you don't feel like you can talk to her about this, then this relationship is doomed and pointless. Communication is so important to bond a couple and if u two can't talk about your problems then there's no hope. Talk to her...

[lissa]

I think you already have your answer that things are over, unfortunately. You deserve to be treated much better than this. My recommendation is to end things with her.