I started dating my girlfriend a little over a year ago. Love her, think she is fun. Have a lot in common, etc, so we moved in together a couple months ago. I feel I am a nice guy and admittedly, it has gotten me in trouble before. Before moving in I offered to split rent 70/30. Me being 70 since I am in IT administration and make good money and she is a school teacher. We would split utilities and food 50/50 (which is still generous on my part, I feel, considering she has a 4 year old daughter who lives with us too).
Despite this, I do all of the house work, all the cooking (she is not much of a cook), grocery shopping (including funding groceries), laundry, driving, etc. I do well over 50% of the parental duties of taking care of her daughter. This is because she is sick, injured or too stresses from work.
She is now sick, injured, whatever all the time. She has started an exercise class every other evening effectively trapping me at home watching her daughter most week nights.
While I do all the work she generally does Facebook, reddit or video games in bed.
When I talk with her about it, it's awful, she usually says, " I am not as concerned about a super clean house as you are so I don't notice when things need to be cleaned" I am picking up after her and her daughter constantly.
I have screwed up, huh, I hoped that by doing all these things to show love that she would put the same amount of effort towards chores and finances to show love and concern back. It isn't happening. Geez, I am an idiot.
Is there any way to reverse this or would you just say I am stuck as a man servant until I end this?