I wasn't having any luck finding anyone I liked through conventional means, so I decided to try online dating. I set up a profile and started talking to this person who seems nice and wonderful, but at first, they didn't have a picture up on their profile yet. Now they've put one up and...I'm just not attracted to him at all. Mostly because he is obese. I know, I know, it seems horribly shallow, but I cannot imagine being in a relationship with someone to whom I'm not attracted, or someone that overweight. So what can I say to end it *without* being rude or letting him know I'm not attracted to him? My ideas on the matter:
- Tell him I've met someone else
- Tell him I'm chickening out and don't want to meet a dude from the internet
And that's all I can think of...if you can come up with a better excuse not to meet, thank you! I just don't want to hurt the guy's feelings is all.