Ok, this is a bit of a long story but I will try cutting it down..........
Met my ex about 5 months ago on night out, texted for month then got together, was absolutely amazing, spent weekends together, spent nights talking about when we got together etc, but also we talked about the future etc. She told me really person things and I told her about my anxiety I suffered with. It was fantastic, she told me she had never felt like this about anyone etc.
Bout few months In I had an anxiety attack, she was bit shocked by the fact I ignored her and the baby, and she split with me. I was heartbroken, but understood, I never told her how bad it was and she was shocked. We didn't talk for a week and then she started getting in contact with my sister, eventually she then text me and said she still loved me etc, we got back together. The week following that was amazing, felt stronger than before, we booked hotel for show we was seeing in November, but also she agreed to come holiday with my family in a couple of weeks (this week now). She was really looking forward to it, she had already been and met my family before, and everyone was saying they could see an engagement in the future, we were excited.
So this is where it goes wrong, one day we were texting, she never replied so I texted back why she never replied. Eventually I got a reply from her asking why I was grumpy, turned out she had contacted my sister as well to ask why I was grumpy. I explained I was grumpy and it was probably the way the text read (misinterpretation). I decided to drive to her house because I wanted to talk, she explained she thought it was bad for the baby, was upset I didn't tell her all about my anxiety etc. I left and I got a text few hours later saying I think its best we leave it, I hope you find someone who you let in because its clearly not me. NExt day I grovelled a little, and she texted and said we could be friends.
In the meantime I start seeing doctor about my anxiety and the doctor advise I message her explaining everything because my insecurities were worse with my anxiety because I never told her everything. She never replied (she had stuff going on with her dad being bad etc, baby, and her probs). Anyway, couple days later I sent a text just saying I hope her dads op went well and that was it. Finally, last Friday I seen she had blocked me on FB, however she had left my family on there. So I sent 1 last text saying I can see you blocked me and assume you don't want contact from me anymore, said I loved her loads and Im sorry if I hurt you, and I wished her and the baby the best in the future. I was planning on no contact.
In mean time she had been snapchatting my older sister, said she was sad etc, she sent few FB PM's back and forth and eventually my sister decided to PM her explaining how unhappy I was, how she wished we could work it out, and advised my ex could still come on holiday (I didn't know she sent this). From my understanding my ex replied saying I don't think I should come because its awkward with her and your brother (me), and she said she was going away herself this weekend as she needed to get away. She also had said several times she missed my sister and the baby did too. Stupidly I then texted my ex tonight saying in 1 sentence that I missed and loved her loads (again my sisters idea).
What is confusing me is I don't get why she is doing what she is doing, why ignore me fullstop, block me on FB (which she didn't do on first split), but contact my sister saying the things she said. She wont even discuss it with me, we didn't even argue when we split, she just felt I was bringing her down. But it hurts how she can throw it all away without trying to fix it, she even told my sister before she wanted me to let her in coz she wanted to understand me.
Any ideas why she could be doing this? I know I should maintain no contact, but its so much harder when you don't have a big breakup, yet don't really understand why she is doing the things she is doing
Thanks in advance guys!!! (my mind tells me it is something to do with her ex, but couple weeks back she asked me if I was bothered by her picking the baby uo from his house when he mind him, and also advised me I don't need to worry about her ex etc, they will always been friends for the baby - although at no point did I express her ex bothered me).