How was your day

[somehelp4me]

[MENTION=44940]nico[/MENTION] - have you spoken to your GF ever about the idea of getting pregnant, starting a family? or she wants to wait until married or older? Ours definitely wasn't planned =)
We haven't settled on final names, when we do by Nov. I'm thinking I will post final list in my thread and y'all can see which ones made the cut.
Is your worklady = to a workwife? You and hatesthis are basically the only ones on here who posts and shares pics, and you have her beat on pics.
I'll post the baby at some point here.
[MENTION=76419]anya_may21[/MENTION]
Sorry for your loss, and also welcome back to loveforum. Good that your BF was there for you during that time. How are you and your family doing now?
No, baby is due in December -- getting close now.

[woody]

So this is where folks are at eh? Nifty. Mind if I join?
I havent' read all the posts save the last page so i'd like to offer my condolences to a couple of folks.
Anyamay, I'm so sorry to hear about your Ma as well as your Bo's Dad. That's really rough and I hope your doing alright. Your a sweetheart so she must have been one lovely lady; I am sorry for your loss Anya_may; yeah, really sorry for your loss.

and Nico. Our furry four legged friends often know us better than most. Losing them and all the joy they've brought to our lives leaves quite the hole. But we remember them and hold their memories to heart.
I lost my boy (he was 16) to flippin 'c'. He was on morphine the last year of his life. He was a big furry boy and I will always miss and shed tears from time to time when I think of him and all he did for me.
and that's all i'll say about that. Aside from, I hope your Family is doing well.
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Interesting thread this. I just started the Forum last year but I must say, I appreciate the kindness' of strangers; the support and encouraging words offered.
Somehelp4me, really curious which names will make that final cut. Baby time is coming up. Anyway, may it be a continued good pregnancy and may it be a great birth.

Hope everyone else is doing well too.
Rough day for me yesterday.
better now.
won't hog the post. have a great day folks!

[nico88]

Welcome woody. This is definitely where all the cool kids are haha I kid, I kid. Glad to see you on here tho and thank you for your kind words about Cody. She was a great dog. Definitely miss her when I go back home and see all the others running but I'm glad she isn't suffering anymore.

@somehelp: The gf actually wanted to have a baby a while back. But I didn't feel like it was the right time. Our careers were both taking off and honestly our relationship was kinda rocky. Didn't want to bring a kid into that. We're doing better now but idk. Maybe in another year or two.

Yes worklady is my workwife haha. We have been suffering through this horrible hours together. She's a trooper. Her hubby is super cool too. He brings us food every night. Chinese yesterday. I had been craving it too. It's like he read my mind. Nearly kissed him when I seen it ha.

Today was a good day. I was off so took the chickens to the park and then picked the gf up from work and went to dinner. Work tmrw from 6 to 3 hopefully and then spending the rest of the day in bed watching some classic horror movies. I ****ing love October

[anya_may21]

Hi, nico, somehelp4me and woody. Thanks to you all for your condolences, I appreciate each thought.



You never take a bad photo nico, you should see some of the ugly ones I take. I will Pm if I want to chat, thank you for offering.

Best wishes, somehelp for when the due dates arrives , hope you have a healthy happy baby. Hope the road conditions are good because you will be in your winter then, I think? We are going into our summers.

So kind the words you said about me woody, thank you, my mom would have got along well with you. I hope you and your love are well.

I went out to my friends tonight to watch DVDs and eat meat pies, sausages, mash and beer.

[nico88]

[MENTION=34109]anya[/MENTION]: Anytime lady. And I'm sure that's not true about your pics. I seen the one you posted on somehelp4me'somehelp4me ' s celeb look alike bored. Definitely a cutie.

Today has been good so far. Took my gf to breakfast this morning, dropped her off at work, took the chickens to central park, and now waiting to start my 13 hr shift. Let the fun begin..

[somehelp4me]

Somehelp4me, really curious which names will make that final cut. Baby time is coming up. Anyway, may it be a continued good pregnancy and may it be a great birth.

Hey, woody -- I'm going to post that when we settle it, we are still going back and forth on the first and middle name list and can't get it shortened down yet.
Actually had two fights on it so far =)
I'll also try if she agrees to post a few pics of our baby, one in my thread and one here in nico's thread in December-- wife pending.

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@somehelp: The gf actually wanted to have a baby a while back. But I didn't feel like it was the right time. Our careers were both taking off and honestly our relationship was kinda rocky. Didn't want to bring a kid into that. We're doing better now but idk. Maybe in another year or two.

Yes worklady is my workwife haha. We have been suffering through this horrible hours together. She's a trooper. Her hubby is super cool too. He brings us food every night. Chinese yesterday. I had been craving it too. It's like he read my mind. Nearly kissed him when I seen it ha.

How many fights did her wanting and you wanting to wait cause? if any. Does she have a have to have by this year? a past her baby timeline thingo.
You both are only in 20's right, lots of time -- we wouldn't have this early either if given the choice.
Her husband sounds like a good guy, your hours sound ridic I couldn't do it.

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Best wishes, somehelp for when the due dates arrives , hope you have a healthy happy baby. Hope the road conditions are good because you will be in your winter then, I think? We are going into our summers.

Thanks, anya.
Yeah the roads are a big concern but maybe snow will arrive late this year, more concerned over icy roads not snowy ones or accidents causing traffic back up during the route to the hospital.

[nico88]

@somehelp: Oh yeah dude we have had tons of fights because of it. She has a lot of lil nephews and nieces so every time we're around them her clock gets a tickin. It's the complete opposite for me tho ha. I mean I love those lil buggers but they exhaust the hell out of me. Yeah I turned 26 this year and she turned 24 so I mean we got plenty of time for that in the future.

Anyways today was a decent day. Skyped it up with the fam:


miss them like crazy. Thinking of heading back to LA as soon as I get the time. I'm off for the next 3 days but got a lot going on. Excited to sleep in over the next few days tho. I don't think I've slept more than 4 hrs since like...September.

[nico88]

Great day with great people. About to grill some fresh salmon on top of some lemons with a side of asparagus and roasted potatoes. Bout to chow the **** down.

[somehelp4me]

[MENTION=44940]nico[/MENTION] -- Mine was similar and look what happened with us =)
If your relationship is going great and stable and you both make good money then if it happens it won't be un-welcomed-- and I think if you wait for a good time you never can find a perfect fit for it.
Took the day off and finished building and painting a bureau for the nursery, the wife will stencil it later on.

[nico88]

I wouldn't say our relationship is "great" currently. We had a lil blow out a few weeks ago. Fights are normal I know, but ours are difficult to bounce back from. She's got a lot of growing up to do. She tends to run away instead of facing problems we have. Makes it difficult for us to resolve shit you know? I don't want us to have a kid and then we get into it one day and she's just like "deuces" and is out for a month. I keep telling her we can't keep going like that and she always says shes gunna work on it. Just hasn't happened yet.

Anyways today has been my only day off in awhile. Haven't been sleeping well again. Keep having those crazy nightmares. Probably gunna pick up some sleep aids pretty soon. If anyone knows of any good ones, feel free to post em below.

[woody]

[MENTION=75705]nico88[/MENTION], sorry about the sleep thing; surely doesn't help when we don't get our zz's. Hey, search some roots on the net. Valerian? Many herbals out there that may assist depending on severity. If herbs don't work, might have to go for something stronger in which case, Dr trip would be needed.

My day? Off for bike ride through old growth. Brr cold here so two layers of long johns today.

Nightmares eh? huh. sorry to hear. 'amitryptaline' (spelling) may be something to talk Dr. about see what they think of that. Get's you to rapid eye movement (R.e.M) and keeps you there for full on sleep. Also helps with day time anxiety's. Low dose though, low dose. Makes for a groggy morning. Seratonin may help too.

good luck

[nico88]

Thanks [MENTION=72336]woody[/MENTION] I'll definitely look into all of that. Big on the natural remedies not too keen on prescription drugs just because drugs and I use to be bffs not to long ago so I try to stay away. But I don't know how much longer I can go without the sleep my body needs. If I do talk to my dr about it it will be on a super lose dose. And maybe something I wouldn't do everyday. Again thank you for your recommendations.

Today has sucked ass. I just wanna go back to bed and stay there till next year.

[anya_may21]

Hi nico, woody, somehelp4me and all others in the thread. Hope every one is happy.

It's early AM here I got back yesterday from Brisbane and a friends wedding, made me want for my own wedding and then go me sad seeing how happy her mom was.

Was a beautiful wedding and time away, it's summer so all bikinis and shorts, beach and outdoors as much as possible.

Can't see my boyfriend again until Feb. because of the 3 trips we did after the family losses and I want to spend the Christmas season and NYE with my dad and family this year.

The Dr can prescribe what you need nico, don't hit miss on things on your own. Wishing you a good nights sleep.

[anya_may21]

Going beddie, Night all!

[nico88]

Thanks Anya. Nice to see you back. It's been a bit. I'm sure it was hard for you seeing how happy your friend's mom was on her wedding day. Take comfort in knowing that your mom will be there in spirit on your special day. I can always feel my grandpa with me. Especially when something big and important is going on in my life. Its hard to explain but I'm sure as time goes on you'll experience the same feeling, if you're not already. I don't think our loved ones ever really leave us.

I had today off. Did a lot of nothing in the a.m. and now hanging out with this one:



My gbffl haha (gay bestfriend for life)

Working tomorrow from 6 to 2 then off to the hamptons with the gf and a couple of her friend's. Should be a good weekend.