This is a followup from my last thread- to anyone who read it. But, to recap, this girl I have been dating for four months (though we have gotten pretty close in terms of our mental relationship- not physically) is being stalked by an individual. Seeing as how going to the police is the best course of action, I approached her about it. She refused, saying that she was still "Okay". I believe that she doesn't want repercussions affecting her life, such as taking time out of her day/week to deal with the problem, or because she is afraid of what her interactions with this stalker will be like if the police fail to dissuade him from continuing to stalk her (he frequents her workplace). Either way, I do not agree with her reasons, and I feel that going to the police is necessary. What can I say, or do to persuade her to get help from professional law management officers? This is becoming stressful to worry about, and I really would like some help. I have considered directly asking her the next time an incident happens to straight up go to the police, or I would go to the police for her (I guess, in the end getting her involved).
-Lost and Confused