i just turned 22, i'm a virgin by choice, i could of lost it countless times, one girl straight up asked me if i wanted to have sex and she was shot ( a friend of my room mate) another girl who i dated for literally a week tried pulling down my pants wanting to give me a bj and i stopped her. I don't know why... scratch that i do know why, if i sound stupid, i'm drinking sorry, but it's because if i do anything sexual with a girl i know i'll become attached and like so far since coming to this university, the only girls that have shown interest in me are party scene girls at my dorms and i constantly hear about how they had sex with this guy i know or this other guy, they are all so loose , i'm not judging but it's just not where i stand with how i view sex, i view it as almost sacred, something special, not to be had at every chance you get. just went to a Halloween frat party and well i was just so disappointed by it.i know more then ever i wont find love at a frat party yet, i keep getting drunk and going because i have no other options... meeting girls in classes is not an option, in clubs is not an option because the only 2 clubs i'm in are almost all male, even though my schol is 65% female.... i feel so hopeless, i'm actually about to resort to dating apps like tinder. I know i'm goo looking and a good guy,yet if i don't approach a girl i know nothing will ever happen because girls wont approach guys, it's insanely rare for that to happen especially when the only time you have a chance to socialize with girls is at a frat party when they are all drunk. I googled this and people pretty much say go to a bar, i've been to bars, it's literally like a 10 to 3 ratio always and the girl is usually just like the frat type of girls, loose. I'm just at a lose , i'm a honest, good looking guy and i don't know how to find someone, i really fear the though of growing to 20-30- or 40 years old and being single and alone ...