Originally Posted by
lesa
So basically the reason she cannot find one particular reason for the breakup is because there was multiple factors that added up which outweighed her desire to be with you? That's probably the best answer you may come up with.
So it seems. But I'm not even convinced of that. But they change every time I talk about it.
For example, she says that I'm not social enough, and she bases that on the fact that I don't go out much when I'm home. But we always went out during the visits... we were rarely ever home. There were times I had to suggest we go out and she wanted to stay in.
Then she said that I wasn't as social to her friends and that she has this thing in her mind of where she can be good friends with my friends and I can be good friends with hers. I was social to the ones I knew, but I guess she expected me to act like best buddies with people I was actually meeting for the first time.
Then she said that when we were at the bar I was glued to her hip... which is also funny, because I would walk to a railing near the dance floor and stand there while we were talking with her friends and she would come lean up against me. But it was me that was glued to her. When we were walking through the crowd once, she saw some girls that were wearing some slutty clothing and she immediately grabbed my hand and got closer... but I was the one glued to her.
She said that I wanted to kiss her all of the time. Damned if I do, damned if I don't. If I don't kiss her, I'm not showing affection and she'll want to kiss me anyways. If I do kiss her, she doesn't want to stop and then when we're done she'll say something like, "I love kissing you. I could lay here all day and do nothing but kiss you."
This is what I'm talking about. All of these extra reasons stemmed from me telling her that I was social when we went out, even being the one to suggest it. So because of that, she had to try to bring up more reasons for it. She didn't even deny that she was holding on to me and kissing me just as much if not more than I was with her. But her only excuse was, "looking back.. I just realize I didn't like it."
She's too inconsistent, like I've been saying.
I don't chase, I replace.