Originally Posted by
elle
we are all humans and the fact that we have control over our feelings is what makes us humans. I mean of course we can fall in love with anybody but it doesn't mean we throw ourselves at him/her. We can show no signs of attraction on the surface. (i'm sure we have all at some point been SECRETLY in love with smb.)... So you could show your love towards males and keep your love towards females secret..
Today tho gays aren't afraid to show that they are gays they actually LIKE the attention, and use any opportunity to mention this. This sometimes makes you think some of them are just faking it..
Didn't I warn her?
Ok... yes we can have control over our emotions MOST of the time... however, you aren't born with having absolute dominion over your emotions... you have to LEARN to control them. So naturally, I didn't know how to cover up these emotions in my younger years. During this 'learning phase' I was harassed and physically beaten profusely... till I finally stood up for myself.
I am very proficient at controlling how much of my sexual orientation is displayed in daily life. This is a very useful survival tool... one that you will never have to develop and so once more, are left in the dark... never to understand it.
Not to regurgitate your words back at you but your stereotype can be applied to heterosexuals as well:
So you could hide your love towards males and keep your love towards males secret..
Today tho straights aren't afraid to show that they are straight they actually LIKE the attention, and use any opportunity to mention this. This sometimes makes you think some of them are just faking it..
Oh.. and one more thing... you don't throw yourself at any male right? (at least I hope not).... What makes you think I throw myself at any male or female? Just like heterosexuals... homosexuals and bisexuals with have standards and individual preferences in the people they are attracted to.
Last edited by Aeradalia; 12-02-09 at 01:47 PM.
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