what makes it love?Originally Posted by whaywardj
what makes it love?Originally Posted by whaywardj
"Ogres are like onions."
Yea, after i thought about all the things i did...I believe it was the same way with me.Originally Posted by artyemi
-to be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting.- e.e.cummings
Depends who you ask i guess...Some might say it's a sign that he cares while others think the opposite.Originally Posted by artyemi
-to be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting.- e.e.cummings
Well, gee, Arty. If you can't say for yourself what love is, then I can understand how you might never be in it.
And it still hurts sometimes to think about some of those things. Is it the same for you?Originally Posted by Asip4u
But I really don't think it was love. If it was, I don't want it to be. I don't want to say I've experienced love in the worse way.
So I call it obsession, infatuation, wanting something I can't have.
Like when you fall into the water and you don't know how to swim. I got up and out, but still got water in my lungs.
"Ogres are like onions."
Caring is not loving. It's different. I can't accept his caring or his love (if he has any for me, not the way I would want to, because it still hurts. Very much. I forgive him. But it hurts anyway.Originally Posted by Asip4u
"Ogres are like onions."
On the face of it, I think you're wise to not call whatever it was you experienced "love." Knowing what it's not for you begins to define what it is for you.
Last edited by whaywardj; 02-07-05 at 05:59 AM.
Yea it still does hurt, although less by each passing day. I thought about it from many different views too.Originally Posted by artyemi
-to be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting.- e.e.cummings
Here's one for y'all: Some of you know about the 5-year long on again/off again thing I was going through and recently put the cabash on. Feature this: Just got a call from the lady on my cell phone. No message. Just a "missed call" indication showing her number. She's MUCH too old to be playing those kinds of games (or should be), and I'm certainly much too old to be at all affected by them.
Just thought I'd mention it to let people (LIKE WHITEDRAGON!!!) know that some shit never changes and you just have to get used to shrugging it all off and going on your merry way. LOL!
okay, now I feel really stupid. I just called her and left her a message. d'oh!
"Life is what you make it, watch your Karma and you will be happy in life. Always trust your heart and let God guide you as he will never lead you astray."
You're making a fool of yourself... stop...contacting...her...
Have a little dignity! Groveling is so pathetic.
Isn't it time for this thread to die yet?
I just called her and told her that that's the last time I would do so and that I'm sorry everything ended the way it did. I said that if I never speak to her again, so be it as long as that's what makes her happy because that's what's most important to me, is that she's happy. I also told her that I still care about her and that I will always love her.
"Life is what you make it, watch your Karma and you will be happy in life. Always trust your heart and let God guide you as he will never lead you astray."
Somebody give me a spoon. I need to gag myself.
This all happened because I heard a song and it reminded me of something that she did that was so sweet and last night I had a total breakdown.
"Life is what you make it, watch your Karma and you will be happy in life. Always trust your heart and let God guide you as he will never lead you astray."