Originally Posted by
lesa
Oh I forgot to mention that when they do say those things it means they feel a little pressured. And as Citycat mentioned, she may still feel that way by pressuring her into answers and time. Give her time. You are not helping it better at all. You are helping it get worse.
Pressured? She, at times, talked more about us than I did. She talked about marriage. She talked about kids. She talked about spending the rest of her life with me.
All I wanted was one answer. That's it. I wanted to know the reason. I got it, and now I can back off. That's all.
I don't chase, I replace.