What Annoyed you today

[Incognito]

Having financial arrangement discussions with my bf about me moving in. Awkward, much? Hi I make a literal ass ton less of money than you. Ugh. I'd rather be having a pap smear with no ky jelly by an angry doctor than doing this today. Faaawk.

LOL, you sound like such a funny person. I wish I could meet you.

[dono01]

I hate dumb people. Sorry, I know that's kinda horrible.

[QueenofCorona]

why worry about financials though? that should be the last thing on your mind when you are moving in.

Ugh, he brought it up today. I feel like now I live sort of paycheck to paycheck and if I keep my current job I'll have more of a commute meaning I'll be paying more in gas money. So yay. I'll be more stressed out AND more broke!!!! Swell. I don't know. I just overly worry about things. I don't want to be broke but I don't want to feel like a free loader either. This is why we are not going to rush into this.

[QueenofCorona]

LOL, you sound like such a funny person. I wish I could meet you.

Likewise, yo.

[Junket]

Class.

As usual.

And I have to take a make up test that I bombed.

[Mish]

Hahaha! Well, ugly....no, not at all. A bitch.....yes, she can be. I often have to "switch off" all emotion when dealing with her in order to stand my ground. Of course she brings it up later saying that my lack of emotion is hurtful, but its a defense mechanism that I HAD to develop years ago to deal with her.

I've been with a girl like that once. The real problem ended up being that she had

a) An extremely low sex drive. She literally couldn't have sex more than she did, she couldn't physically, emotionally, rationally, which ever level you want to prescribe it.
b) A strange set of neo-Religious values that pointed to sex being dirty and unwelcome.

So, that's pretty much all it takes to produce the kind of result you describe. In hindsight, she might not be alll that bad Incognito, consider how much better off she'd be with someone with an extremely low sex drive and who's more compatible to her personality/values?

[qwertz]

Yeah I've commented about this before. If you see a shooting star wish that Incognito's wife stops breathing in her sleep.....

ROFL!!!! I laughed hard!

[QueenofCorona]

Lately I've been having a really hard time with the fact that all I may ever be is a step mom. A former friend told me that I'd never be able to love a step child as much as my own. Its a really lonely feeling being part of a family but not really part of it. I just don't feel 100% complete.

[dewilliams2]

Lately I've been having a really hard time with the fact that all I may ever be is a step mom. A former friend told me that I'd never be able to love a step child as much as my own. Its a really lonely feeling being part of a family but not really part of it. I just don't feel 100% complete.

Do you have a medical problem that would keep you from being a mother or is it just where your at within your life that makes you think it won't happen?

If it doesn't happen though I'm sure you will be the most amazing step-mom in the world because all that energy you would have put to having and raising your own you can put into them.

And tell your former friend to go **** themselves.

[QueenofCorona]

My bf is snipped already. We've never really had that talk yet. I am almost 31 now so my window of motherhood is getting narrower. I guess in a way I am a little jealous of the connection my bf and his ex wife will always have or the connection him and all his parent friends have. I feel like such an outsider lately, to the point of being depressed.

[Petit Papillon]

I'm annoyed seeing how unfair my bf is treated at work. If he were a member of this forum ,he would write it here today but he's not, he told me that and I'm annoyed because I know how he must feel right now. He studied law for 5 years,since a year he worked his ass of at work, sometimes staying 12 or more hours instead of 8 per day.Well, he barely takes lunch breaks, sometimes he just goes to take a sandwich and stays to work. Hell, sometimes he takes work home and works during the weekends... Since he's working there, his boss doesn't have to stay late or during saturdays anymore,why? My boyfriend does his work of course. Now his boss can finally take holidays...
There is a girl,kind of secretary-accountnant (the poop girl, who does poop and doesn't fluch the toilet). She came to the firm last year. At the beginning she got 1200eur and after 3 months, their boss raised her salary to 1500 eur . Hell, she can do overtime and is payed for it - my boyfriend can stay at the office 24/7 and will be payed just for working 8h per day.What this bitch is doing?She stays at work doing overtime,even though she does shit there,actually other accountnant needs to finish her work always cause she's too dumb to do that.SO imagine, she gets much more than those 1500Eur...
Today my bf's boss announced him how much he will raise his salary... He told him he's very satisfied with his work, he can finally rest a bit and he's extremely thankfull for what he's doing. How much did he get? 150eur. He's earning 500 eur more than this stupid cunt that does shit.
I understand that there is no justice in this ****ing world. But for ****s sake, if he was about to give him just ****ing 150 raise, he could shut his ****ing mouth. It's simply pathetic.
If I were him, I would laugh in his face . I would chuckle like a squirrel ,cause 150 euro... You go here to a market and buy food for 3-4 days and this is what you spend
Ahh life is TERRRRIBLE

I just found out that our best friends Dog died We all loved Chatta

[dewilliams2]

My bf is snipped already. We've never really had that talk yet. I am almost 31 now so my window of motherhood is getting narrower. I guess in a way I am a little jealous of the connection my bf and his ex wife will always have or the connection him and all his parent friends have. I feel like such an outsider lately, to the point of being depressed.

Well truly you still have several more years...I mean you probably don't wanta wait another 10 years but even then you probably could and not worry about any medical problems...but within the next 5 years you should be okay. And who knows what the future brings.

Talk to your bf about it and see what he thinks....you can get reversals...and tell him you want to have a baby with him if that is where you are at within your relationship.

I do know what you mean though. My gf has a little girl and her ex husband is a huge asshole and probably just about every day I wish that she was my daughter and not his....I dated my gf for a long time and then we had a huge fight and broke up. Didn't talk for about a year or 2 and then started seeing each other again as friends....she was dating another guy and about the time I was going to tell her that I loved her he asked her to marry him and I backed off. Didn't talk to her for another year until she left her husband who was physically and emotionally abusive and I have wondered a lot if things would have been different if I had told her I loved her instead of backing off. Of course when the door opened back up for me I jumped in and told her exactly how I felt. So I do know how you feel.

But she is only 22 and I'm only 23 well about 24 so we have plenty of time yet.

[Junket]

My bf is snipped already. We've never really had that talk yet. I am almost 31 now so my window of motherhood is getting narrower. I guess in a way I am a little jealous of the connection my bf and his ex wife will always have or the connection him and all his parent friends have. I feel like such an outsider lately, to the point of being depressed.

Ugh, my g/f is turning 28!

And me 24...

I'm beginning to feel that pressure encroach upon me.

[tooxshort]

Found out that because my identity was stolen before, the IRS has put a hold on my tax return. ****in' shit, dude, why can't I just press charges against whoever did it and get my damn money? I filed the damn thing in February and I gotta wait 4 more weeks before they decided whether or not they want me to submit more information to prove who I am.

[Illusional]

now BOTH of mish's threads have surpassed mines.... god dammit...

can someone give me a beer?

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